Everyone has priorities. We don't always know what they actually are though. We act on them based regardless however, so it is a good idea to figure them out. I've discussed the importance of them previously, but today I realized something I had missed. My priorities are not necessarily my wife's priorities.
You know, sometimes I say or write something and then look back at it and realize how dumb that sounds. So yeah, we are different people and we have different priorities. We haven't really talked about them and that is kinda bad. I'm sure it is a factor that has played into at least one of the disagreements we've had in our marriage.
Today's learning is when you are working closely with someone you should probably figure out what their priorities are and share yours so you can figure out how to get them to align.
I'm going to go do that now...
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