Have to vs Get to

Today is another vs battle! This time it is between two sets of words that you use quite frequently, but most likely you are using them sub-optimally.

Of course I need to reference the inspiration of this post, which is from Michael Hyatt's blog.

The words we use have a significant impact on the people around us as well as our own outlook and attitudes. So when we use negative geared wording it brings down the overall environment. This is especially true when compared to alternatively positive wording.

When we say we "have to" go do something it carries with it connotations of begrudging responsibility or dissatisfaction. Reciprocally, if we say we "get to" do something it inherently carries with it a certain level of anticipation and positivity.

Think about what you are thinking when you say the following two statements.

"I have to go to the store."

"I get to go to the store."

The second one sets you up for a more positive experience and reflects the many blessings that you have, like a car that works to take you, money to buy the stuff you are going to get, and an overall safe environment that makes going to the store a relatively simple endeavor.

I am trying to improve my overall outlook on life. It is very easy for me to focus my attention on the negatives and the difficulties in my life. Being intentional about my words and trying to be more aware and appreciative of my blessings is an important part of both being content and at the same time improving my life.

Do you think this would be helpful for developing a better outlook? How do you see words affecting your mindset?